Friday, December 17, 2010

just right

since i finally got our christmas decorations just the way i wanted, i thought it would be good to document it because 1. i've never cared much about this kind of stuff and am happy that i finally put some effort into it and 2. i need to remember this for next year.

so starting with our tree, which is alive and has the root ball intact. this is not the perfect tree, but it is the tree that will keep on giving since it will live in our yard forever when we plant it. so in that sense it is perfect for us (and perfect for the purpose it will serve of contributing to nature and blocking the junk in our neighbors yard from view)
this is my grandma's christmas village. she loved this village and i'm so honored to now be the proud owner. i think of her everyday when i look at it and know that she is looking down from heaven and smiling at her little village in my house, where her great grandson can admire it and play with the little fake trees. (the little fake people are in a drawer cause they are a toddler no no)
we have this huge tree on the right front corner of our house so i hung these large (target) ornaments on it and illuminated with a spot light. thanks daniel stowe botanical gardens for this idea!
the front porch urns have tomato stakes turned upside down and strung with large C9 bulbs:
the maple in the front is our "party tree". we had to get this deer for buxton cause our neighbors have 2 and he talks about them all the time. now he has his own deer and he will sit on the couch looking out the widow at it for an unusually long time.
the same neighbors (with the deer) also have the best tree decorations i've ever seen in a yard. simple but beautiful. it is white balls of light (chicken wire shaped in a ball with lights strung around it) placed in the trees all over the yard. so when you drive down our street you see these beautiful balls of lights that seem to be floating in the trees. and since their house is at the end of the cul-de-sac you get to see them as soon as you turn on the street.
this picture does not do it justice but i had to give you and idea:
for years i've said that we would do the same balls of lights so all the trees/bushes in the cul-de-sac would be lit up. this year, this week, last night we finally got some balls of lights put up. thank you to my sweet husband (who barely has 10 free min in his day since he works 70 hours a week) for making this happen for me. it is silly but these lights make me so happy. so happy that they may be up until spring.
we put our balls in the front bed, in the hibiscus:
and a small tree:
and on to more important things, like the reason for the season, i have to share some buxton sweetness. thanks to the best advent calendar in the world, we've been able to encourage buxton's understanding of the meaning of christmas. we played with it before december started (which is what jenn told me to do and she's also the one that told me about this calendar) and talked about all the characters in the story. so now as the story unfolds each night buxton is familiar with the characters and "gets it" a little. to hear him say "baby jesus" or "jesus mama" or "jesus dada" makes me the happiest mom in the world. and getting a piece of candy each night makes him the happiest, sweetest boy in the world.


Tuesday, December 14, 2010

circa santa


last week we went to circa for a pic with an old fashioned santa. we weren't able to make it last year but i'm so glad we did this year. i just love this picture. they had a professional photographer and he did a great job. elin didn't have a christmas outfit when this was taken but she has on a very special outfit borrowed from her very special friend, wynnie. and her booties were mary's daughter's (haley). they are way better than socks and so sweet. i wish i could have gotten a pic of the kids without santa cause the setting was just beautiful, and i couldn't care less about santa really, but nonetheless, i love this!
circa is SO awesome for doing this.
and we've still only pooped on the potty once but he's still talking about it a lot so we keep trying. i just had to post this:
elin had her 2 month appt yesterday and was such a champ about her shots. she weighed 13.4 lbs and measured 23 inches. so she's 95th percentile for weight and 75th for height. my big girl!

Wednesday, December 8, 2010

pics of the latest

it has been a little on the "rough" side around here with me being under the weather for what feels like 2 weeks now. and buxton went to the dr. for a double ear infection and sinus infection last week. i had no idea kids with tubes could get ear infections but guess what, they can! he is all better now, thank goodness, and still keeping us on our toes all the time.
little miss elin is doing great and still getting longer by the day. she's almost out of 3 month clothing and is 9 weeks right now. she is also smiling all the time and every smile warms my heart like i can't even describe. she is the sweetest thing and i just love her to pieces!

we've captured a few smiles on our phones:

sitting on the kitchen table, watching mommy cook

at 11pm right before daddy gave her a bottle (mommy was sacked out)


and these 2 are today, right after her lunch.

buxton has been talking about pooping, the potty and tting a lot lately. i think he's starting to get ready for potty training. he will tell us he has to poop most of the time before he actually goes. so we'll sit him on the potty to see what happens. he is yet to actually go on the potty, but we are happy that he's at least talking about it and seems really interested in it.
sorry bud, had to post this one. :)


Saturday, November 27, 2010

lots to catch up on

time is slipping by so quickly with the busyness of this time of year and the juggling of all the balls we seem to have in the air right now. i'm trying to keep things as simple, slow, low-key, etc as possible so i can savor every minute of this time i have with my family during the holidays, with being off work and all. january and all things bank of america will be here before i know it so i'm hopeful that december is slow and sweet.
just as sweet as these 2:
buxton is being sooo sweet to his little sister. he wants to kiss her all the time. he has learned what the word "gentle" means and says it over and over, every time he gets close to her. now just cause he is saying it, doesn't mean he always doing it. like below it looks like he's going to give her a good smack (but it was just a nice pat):
here's a couple thanksgiving photos from our time with the heffner's.
buxton, elin, and their great-grandpa:
and here is my dad, step-mom and 2 half-sisters:
we are so fortunate to live close to penland tree farm and also be good friends with the owners. getting our christmas tree here is loads of fun every year. this year ben's mom and step-dad joined us!
buxton and mawmaw on the hay ride!
it really is so beautiful there:
they have a mulch hill with a tunnel:
and lots of tractors!
this year we bought a live white pine with root ball intact. we are going to plant it in the yard after christmas. see how excited buxton was about our tree (this is the one)!

and sweet baby girl was all bundled up and patiently waited for us to make our selection:

so i was feeling bold (even though i was truly really tired from all the thanksgiving travel) and decided to go for another family photo. i am showing 3 pics so you can see exactly how this went:


and a few really sweet ones to end on. this was at my mom and bill's (who were totally decorated for christmas on thanksgiving) thanksgiving night -our 2nd meal of the day:
and my little sugar plum:


Tuesday, November 16, 2010

boys, etc!


on sunday we finally got to spend some time with the lowrance's and ehrenreich's, and buxton and beckett finally got to play together. margaret and i talk about how much they would enjoy each other all the time but living a couple hours apart makes the hang time difficult to achieve. these boys, one month apart, are so much alike. beckett just melts my heart and those curls, oh those curls!!


sliding together on the double slide:

jason and amy with amy and matt's parents:
us girls:
2 peas in a pod:

this is our first ever attempt at a family photo with all 4 of us. yes it's sad that elin is 6 weeks old and this is our first family photo, but honestly we may not try for this again for awhile. it was stressful!
see below to see some excerpts of how it went:

(me fixing elin's shirt while she screams in hunger)
(still screaming. too bad cause buxton is totally in character here)
(whiny buxton...awesome!)
elin has gotten sooo long and her taking 4+ ounces per feeding since almost the beginning is starting to take affect. ben took this on his phone since he liked her shirt so much:
and here she is getting some tummy time. she's doing really well with trying to hold her head up and is very active when she's not sleeping. she continues to be such and easy baby, only crying for food or sleep and never needing to be "put" to sleep at night. after she eats she goes right back to her crib without a peep. i love how mary told me that an easy baby is a little kiss to me from God. she said He knew I would need this kiss with a 20 month old boy brother. God is so good!
since we've had a lot of snotty noses in the house recently i have to tell everyone about this awesome device that has helped us a lot with these noses. it's called the Nosefrida. if you think this is gross get over it cause it's not and oh so effective. jenn gave me this as a gift and i think it is the best gift ever! target, amazon, drugstores, etc are carrying them now so go get one, like now.

and please pray for amy this week, as she is having her double mastectomy on thursday. please pray for her peace of mind, the doctor (dr. moore), adam and charis, amy's healing/recovery and that this surgery overall be better than, or not as difficult on her as anticipated. our awesome God is going to hold her hand every step of the way and I pray that she feels His presence at all times!

Thursday, November 11, 2010

our zoo outing

on monday we took a trip to the nc zoo in asheboro. it was a quick trip but we had just enough time to see everything there that buxton would be interested in. and just enough time to totally wear him out without completely exhausting him. ben and i hadn't been to the zoo in ages, so it was fun for us for sure.
the black bear and gorilla (no pic of gorilla) came really close so we could get a really good look. i never knew how majestic gorillas are, or how big!
this path is what you travel on to see all the animals, and it is so beautiful. we finally got to see the fall leaves and what a treat that was!